Wednesday, February 18, 2015

Graduation: the day I never thought would come


 



I finally graduated from BYU! (About time, I was only there from 2003-2013, then teaching in 2014). I'm soooooo glad I made it to walk in graduation (thank you Baby B for holding out), it was a highlight for sure!!

Commencement:


I look ginormous here



Maryam and I worked in the same lab for 5 years. Here we are lining up for Commencement.



Mike graduated the same day! Here he is lining up for Commencement.


Here I am on the FRONT ROW!!! at commencement :)




Good grief my hair looked amazing! (I say that because since I have had Baby B-9.5 months ago-my hair has been sooooooo terrible and I have enormous baggies under my eyes. I have aged approx 30 years overnight!

Though I have a few regrets, a) a bit sad, or more like horrifically devestated, that I did not get a soft cap, b) no colorful robe, and c) graduation was lacking bagpipes and was held in the Wilk where I have eaten lunch just about every day for ten years, wearing a robe and hood was truly charming. :)


 The Ph.D graduates got to walk in first (yes, I felt spectacularly cool, yes, I am a nerd) and when we walked across the stage had a paragraph about us read (spectacularly cool moment number 2). Here is my paragraph-O helped me write it up :)

Rebecca Elizabeth “Betsy” Olsen

Betsy’s research has focused on nano materials. In particular, she has synthesized and characterized high surface area stabilized nano titania supports of controlled pore diameters. She has dispersed platinum onto these supports using industrially viable processes. Titania is used in many applications such as photocatalysis and as a support material for noble metals in a number of oxidative synthesis and pollution-control reactions. Stabilized titanias produced in Betsy’s work demonstrated equivalent or higher thermal stability and surface area than previously reported in scientific literature. Betsy has enjoyed teaching chemistry at BYU this semester and hopes to open a candy store one day. She and her husband are expecting their first child, a baby boy, any day. 

The Dean read the paragraph and he even added in that he would love to come to my candy store-I nearly died of delight right there on the stage-and then my adviser hooded me. Despite the lack of bagpipes, there was plenty of pomp and circumstance and I loved every minute of it all! (OK, to be honest, I had a hard time sitting in my chair as they read through the undergrad names, I really wondered if I was going to pass out. But, I was 39 weeks pregnant so you have to give me a break!)

Here is a play by play so you can all remember every moment with me!










My wonderful family came down to celebrate. We also had several other graduates in the family that day and all celebrated together with a Cafe Rio catered luncheon at Jed and Kathy's condo.

 O's parents came down from Idaho!

 My niece on O's side. She is at BYU this year!

 Me and my advisor. I worked in Brian Woodfield's lab for many wonderful years :)


 We should win a prize for being the biggest BYU fans ever! All family members (with the exception of M who is presently a BYU undergrad) graduated from BYU!

 L was off to Mike's graduation so we missed her in the BYU siblings pic :)

I sooooo love graduation. One of the best parts about being faculty is that I can dress up in robes and go twice a year! However, if I really start going twice a year I could see myself making a move to get a soft cap. :) And next time, I will choose a school with extremely flamboyantly colored robes!

 

Friday, June 27, 2014

House Renovations

OK-so I started this post, then stopped and resumed several times. It is now June 26-several months after all my renovations :), and I'm thinking about getting back into blogging so I've finished this post up willy-nilly and am moving on :)

April something:
I've been thinking about blogging (for quite some time now) but it is so hard to recap an entire year that I keep putting it off (and instead I repeatedly look at all of your blogs, which most of you are needing to update as well- I have nothing to read!).

So, rather than update, I will just start with today. Maybe I'll get around to posting about the last few months, but maybe some months all you can do is survive.

So, today:

My kitchen is a bit of a mess (don't worry boo, you can still paint your cabinets :)  )

I am supposedly "nesting" (apparently that happens to prego people, and I am one of those). I guess so if "nesting" is this:
K says: your kitchen is 80s, white cabinets would be better.
Me: OK, I will get white cabinets
Painters: We will not bother giving you a bid, it is exorbitant to paint cabinets
Aunt P: It is super easy to paint your cabinets
Me: I am a super do it yourselfer (note to self, you have never actually done anything yourself other than rotate your sprinkler heads after F showed you how-that was apparently overly empowering and misleading). This is going to be so fun, I will get in touch with my artistic side! (I have no artistic side)
Lots of people: are you getting the nursery together?
Me: I thought babies slept in pack and plays in the corner (not trying to be weird, I actually thought (and still sort of suspect) that this is reality)
K and sisters: (horrified) No, you must have a nursery, and a crib, etc.
Me: OK,  I will get a nursery
Family: while you are painting nursery, paint the whole house (seems reasonable)
Painters: it will be 1 billion dollars to do all of your projects
Me: I think I will sit in my bathtub in my beautiful bathroom and forget about the rest of my crummy house for the next three hours
Me: I am a super do it yourselfer, who needs painters? I am going to home depot!
3 hours later: I have removed all cabinet doors, and started scraping texture off the walls of the soon to be nursery, feeling a bit manic. Made the following note to self: do not tell anyone what you are doing, don't let anyone come over for the next several weeks, bc they will for sure panic, and that will incite panic in you.
O: comes home from work, looks around, goes downstairs to his chair and does not move for the rest of the night.

So, that was the start of some lovely projects :)

I have now got things under control a bit. Here is a basic how to in case you want to paint your cabinets etc:

Day 1: removed doors

Day 2: sand doors (it turns out, sand paper matters, use 100 or 120 for the first sanding). I sanded by hand and that was not bad-it did not take too long.
Day 3: lady at paint store says sanding is 80% of the job. I go straight home and re-sand. I then dust off doors, clean with crud-cutter, and lay out all doors in main floor. (O actually was persuaded to lay out all the doors for me, which was absolutely the best thing in the world bc I cannot bend over and straighten up much on account of my sciatic nerve problem)
Day 4: primer coat 1 on the back of doors. I used Benjamin Moore Advance primer (pricey, about $50 a gallon, but it is supposed to be the best and has no fumes-important as I am expecting) After priming one door I thought 1. "oh no, what have I done, this looks terrible!" and 2. "I am going to die, this is going to take too long, I better paint faster" (not smart. faster = even worse painting, and I was not too great when going slow).
Day 5: primer coat 1 on the front of door. Noticing there are lines everywhere. It turns out-brushes matter. Get the correct brushes! (naive me was considering just using those black foam 97 cent brushes, ya, not a good idea. I also just pulled out some random little roller brush I had, again, not a good idea. Went to home depot and got the not Good, not Better, but Best roller brush, the one listed for smooth surfaces, this was much better for the next coats). Also, it turns out that you will see brush strokes with primer, no stress.
Day 6: primer coat 2 on the back of doors. This time I wised up and had Dance Moms going on my ipad so I would not rush through the job.
Day 7: need to prime 2 coat on front of doors. Panicking because painting in the grooves is really hard. Wondering if I have made a major mistake in doing this project (actually, I wondered that rather regularly...) Watched youtube videos all morning, felt empowered, wisely chose to only paint half the doors (what's the rush, I had to keep reminding myself)
Day 8: Finished priming 2nd coat on the front of doors. Doing much better, way less dribbling going on. Still, slightly concerned about my abilities to actually paint these doors without them looking extremely craft-projecty. Again, wondering if I have made a serious mistake.



Day 9: look into spraying cabinet doors. Idea was quickly discarded as internet mentions this is not something for a beginner to attempt.
Day 10: painter over for upstairs project offers to take doors away to be sprayed and fill in knot holes while at it
Day 11: bid is quite inexpensive for spraying doors, decide to do it
Day 12: sanded doors with 220 grit sandpaper to remove some of the dribbles (and noticed all the shocking sloppy parts where I dribbled everywhere. It was confirmed to me that sending the doors off was a very good idea).
Day 13: sent doors off, happiness :)
**don't panic if you are doing this yourself-I only painted an hour or two each day, you could make it a marathon and do it much faster

So: at this point it has been about 2 1/2 weeks, (I had some days in between where I did nothing, or other projects). With the primer I used, I could do a coat every 8-12 hours (so front, then flip and do back about 8-12 hours later), so I could have done this considerably faster. Also, if you have two people working on the project, it would go much faster.  I also found out from the lady at the paint store and the painter at my house that I only needed to do one coat of primer-at least with my doors and the primer I used, so all in all, I could rather easily have done all of this in 2-3 days had I been more organized, focused, and not doing so many projects at once :)

Meanwhile:

while this was going on, I was also working on a few other projects:
cabinet boxes:
Day 1: sanded, again, even though this is supposed to be a super major part of the process, it was actually really fast and not a big deal. Cleaned cabinet boxes with crud-cutter. (this stuff is pretty good!)
Day 2: wondering if I should remove the hinges from the door (F thought I was insane for even questioning this, however, there was a little wiggle room on where I could rescrew them so it seemed like a valid question in my mind. Of course, I followed F's advice and removed them in the end. LOVE my cordless drill :)  )
Day 3. Taping off: I spent 3 hours taping! And I did not even have to be careful because my walls and trim will be painted after I paint the cabinets-so I really only had to protect the floor and counter tops, but it still took forever!
Day 4: spent 2 more hours taping! (I did run out of painters tape, so I had to switch to regular masking tape, which I then ran out of, then had to switch to using duct tape to tape the brown paper stuff to the floor-that added about 20 min I'm sure, duct tape is hard to tear. PS: O's car was in the shop so he took mine that day which is why I could hardly run over to home depot to get more tape)
Day 4: decided I would have to move some things out of cupboards (I did not want paint dribbling on my china. Stacked stuff willy nilly all over the floor and table) (sigh, so typical of me, I should approach things in a more organized fashion). 
Day 4: yes, same day-started priming. Primed for 3 hours, only about 1/3 of cabinet boxes. Ate nothing but cheetos and string cheese and a few broccoli florets (no car and I'd taped all the appliances shut) a tad depressed, I collapsed on my bed and played sudoku for 2 hours.
Day 5: primed 1/3 more, much more efficient this time
Day 6: finished priming, very efficient. Painter sees it and OKs it! (It was here that I found out I did not need to do another coat of primer, I was so enthused, I could see the light at the end of the tunnel, only 2 coats of paint, I can do that easy!!)

Now: I have been sitting around, for days on end (2 1/2 days actually), with my kitchen all taped closed, waiting for the painter to drop off the paint!! I'm getting a tad bit antsy to get painting so I can get into things again. (also, everytime I turn around Owen is getting into the microwave etc, which I then continuously retape.... this cannot go on!)
-again, if you were going for speed, you could do this part in 1-2 days, also while you are painting the doors

Days 7-9: painted cabinet boxes. Did three coats of paint (the painter kept giving me all these pointers and telling me I had to do the third coat), did a light sanding between each coat, also, wipe with tacky cloth after each sanding
Day 10: hung doors with K and F- in case you ever do this yourself, leave the hinges in the cabinets, I put them all in a bowl and that made it a bit harder bc each one had to be adjusted as they got all mixed up!

 before:


after: (just wainting on knobs)

Day like 40: ordered knobs, then they came in the day I went into labor (I picked up writing this post about three weeks after I had Benny) and I have yet to pick them up (I did eventually pick them up, about 6 weeks after I had Benny). I'm excited to get them all on though, (By the time I finish this post I bet I will have them up and can include a pic) (It is now 8 weeks and I am hoping to get J to come by and help me put them up tomorrow) :).


Third project: Nursery
Ok, just picking up this blog post about a month and a half after I started writing it :). Therefore, there will be less details here as I can hardly remember what I did.
First we scraped the horrendous texture off the walls-that is back breaking labor but only took about 1-2 hours per wall.
before:

(you cannot tell but the painting was awful and the texture was beyond words!)

some texture removed

Next the painter painted the ceiling and trim and primed the walls
finally we (meaning K and F) hung the wallpaper. O and I figured out how to do it well enough that we hung two strips at the end :) It turns out F is a master wallpaper-er and K is pretty awesome at smoothing out bubbles and getting things lined up. Now that I have been involved in papering a small room, I find myself all agog when I think of the bedroom I grew up in (papered with very high ceilings and all sorts of angles!).
Finally K finished it off with some decorating. We got a crib (and now that i have a three week old babe I find that my initial thoughts, that babies don't sleep in cribs-is quite correct) (and still ocrrect 8 weeks later :) )and are using a rug, dresser, and rocking chair from M's old nursery (17 years later and they are still great pieces). Then we found these very fun shelving/drawer units at IKEA. Before the baby came K and I discovered how fun IKEA is!







Next projects:
today we purchased all the materials for a garden box and flowers for pots. Time to get moving on the yard again. Done-F came and built it with O and O filled it all up with dirt, here it is! (I plan to eventually have 3 of them, remove the grass between and put in stepping stones, get an elephant or rabbit topiary to put in the center box, and perhaps create and arch or fence from espalier fruit trees (perhaps more likely I will be moving by the time I get around to all of that, for now I will settle with just getting the sprinklers running properly).

still waiting for the rest of the little round tops to come in


We hope to get the main floor, and hall painted before the baby blessing-we have finally selected the kitchen paint color and will hopefully finalize the main room color soon! Finally done! J found an awesome painter and M found a great color for the front room (she spent hours pouring over paint books, houzz, and every traditional home magazine ever published). The end result: Benjamin Moore white dove (semi-gloss) for trim and beadboard throughout house, same but flat finish for ceilings, same but eggshell finish for walls in kitchen and hall, same but semi-gloss for kitchen cabinets, and Benjamin Moore Morning Dew in eggshell for living room walls. Yes, the whole white dove thing might sound like  it was easy-but we tested over 50 paint samples to come up with this scheme!!
Basically, the whole house looks new! We are thrilled with the progress and are moving on to the fireplace and mantle next!

when we first moved in and ripped the whole place apart

drywalled to cover the terrible texture

before we added the bead board and the new trim


all painted (I will have to take the photos in some better light so you can see the front room color and the bead board better)





 
Hallway before



hallway painted

And just for fun since I'm downloading photos-here is the changes to the front yard we have made-first removed the grass and made larger planting beds. Last summer we planted a few things and they are starting to grow! We need to add a few trees and some bushes etc so I'll update the yard at the end of the summer.

first moved in


now

 grass removed
grass removed


plants are starting to fill in!

And here is the fabulous bedroom and bathroom that we did last year.
The mural that inspired it all:


 We have added the trim and painted but still need to finish up with some dressers etc

I left K in charge and we came back to the most fabulous little space ever!

before:



now:







in progress:



And you have finally reached the end of this disjointed post (forgive the errors, I did not even have the heart to spell check)!
Next up... Benny!

Tuesday, March 19, 2013

Phys-i-cali fit

Today I ate 5 jelly beans and then E told me to try turkey burgers...

So O and I have started an insane fitness challenge-we get daily points for doing things like eating fruits and veggies, not eating treats, not eating after 9 pm, drinking water, exercising, and all sorts of other horridly difficult things. We add up our points and our weight loss weekly and submit them to the grand master. The challenge goes on for 8 weeks after which an ultimate winner will be named. Lets just say, I am not sure O or I will be taking home the prize.

E told me about this all last Sunday and I thought I had better join in bc I have been on a bit of a downward spiral as far as health consciousness goes. I came home and told O he would have to do it to support me :)  O reads all the rules and says "OK, sounds good", then gets to the part about points for weight loss and says "no way! If anything I need to gain weight!" He then proceeds to step onto our scale (which I had just stepped off, after discovering myself to be even larger than my extreme large days when I had to fly home from Italy with my pants not only unbuttoned but also burst-not bursting but past tense-at several seams) and started screaming hysterically about how he has never been so huge, he used to be such a thin mint in high school,  why had I not mentioned it, etc. Suffice it to say, he signed up with alacrity. (and O has been making comments all week like, "my face is so round now" and "I worked my butt off today!-wait, I guess that is not really true")

Day 1 started off with O pondering where to buy squeezable veggies (he pretty much exclusively eats things in tubes-gogurts, those apple sauce squeeze packs, and fruit cups) and me realizing I had not had actual "fruit" in about 6 months (after E clarified that fruit snacks for some reason don't count). We ended up racing through Costco, then racing home to eat all of these fruit and veggies (and Arby's that we had to pick up bc our time was sooo limited) before 9:00. Days 2-5 were  pretty good, with O racing home every night at 8:40, followed by us shoveling in food as fast as physically possible (I'm not sure the stop eating at 9:00 is working out so well). Our exercise (which along with scissors is a word I cannot spell) consisted primarily of walking in place while watching TV (who needs a walking machine) but hey-when you are starting at the bottom, you don't have to go very far to make slight improvements! (ps: I do have my recent leg surg as an excuse, I did have a golf ball removed from my thigh after all)

Day 6 started off marvelously with a snickers candy bar, laffy taffys, mentos, and anything else nice I could get my mitts on. We get one free candy day and I was taking it to the extreme. Plus, I was skiing so I thought it was justified. Day 7 I decided to forgo the 5 points I would get from not eating sweets. Determined to live it up, I drank nothing but diet coke and sprite all day long and sadly, at 9:00 pm, realized I had to drink 64 oz of H2O. That is quite a lot of H2O and I'm not sure I will make that mistake again. I downed 3 water bottles, laid on the bed quite ill, and finally hobbled over to the scale to weigh in. Imagine my horror to see that I had actually gained 3 lbs! I slung myself back on the bed for another hour in dismay. I was relieved to find that, once relieved of all that water (and most of my clothing) I had lost 1 lb.

O hopped on the scale and started screaming hysterically (once again, I think Sunday nights might be a bit emotional for some time) that he had gained weight. He had to remove every stitch of clothing to just maintain his weight. (he was somewhat comforted when L told him perhaps he had gained muscle, which weighs quite a lot).

So we ended week 1 thinking that perhaps we will take things a little slow-week 1, just try to do the basic challenges, week 2, probably the same. Around week 3 we may try to go the next step and cut the 4-5 daily muffin ration down to just 1. No need to be too extreme.

This has all been building up to tonight-the RS bday party dinner.

There I was, sitting at my table, trying to make polite conversation with a few ladies I had never spoken with, and when they all started nibbling at the jelly beans sprinkled all over the table, I thoughtlessly joined in. I had a lovely dinner, talked for about 30 more min and suddenly, looking at those colorful jellybeans, which, by the way, I don't even like, it hits me, I ATE SUGAR!!!!!!!!!! I WASTED MY FREE TREAT DAY ON 5 JELLY BEANS!!!!!!!!!!  I was so upset I could barely focus and had to leave. I called E on my way home, hoping she would say, "oh, it is fine, that does not count" and instead she says "well this can just be your free point day" (so, since I had already had those dumb beans I ate a fruit snack and a snickers ice cream bar, a fun size one I might add). Then, when I confessed that (bc I ate them really fast while on the phone) she said, "you should sign up for this food program, they send you healthy foods like turkey burgers". At first I am like "oh doesn't that sound nice, I'll be sure to consider it" while inside I'm thinking "E is insane, did she just hear me when I said I just ate a snickers candy bar? I am not ready for turkey burgers", eventually I ask "are turkey burgers even good?" and she says, no lie "they are an acquired taste, but I like them now, I eat them plain, I don't even have a bun". Yes I am dead serious. Well gee, starting a few months ago when I go to Mcdonalds I get my cheeseburgers without cheese in an attempt to be healthy but I have never thought about getting it without the bun. (on a side note every time we go, which is not exactly infrequent, O says "what do you want" and I say "a hamburger" and O says "no cheese huh? you don't like cheese?" and I say "I like cheese, I am just trying to cut down on the fat/calories". We have this conversation like once a week, word for word, it is so bizarre. Next time I think I'll just order the cheeseburger.)

well, after tonight's breakdown I am getting back in the saddle. O and I are going to get serious about seriously getting in shape :)

I am, however, not ready for the turkey burger-ask me again on week 4.